Dilemma Emma: Does Poly Ever Work?

By DILEMMA EMMA

January 28, 2012

Dear Dilemma Emma,

I am a queer woman.  I love men, I love women.  I am in a long-term relationship (LTR) with a cisgendered dude right now.  We’re really in love, and I don’t …

Emma Dilemma: Dangers of Breath Play?

By EMMA DILEMMA

January 17, 2012

I’m a young dyke living the good life. I’ve recently started doing new and wonderful things in bed with a lovely new someone I’ve been seeing for …

Dilemma Emma: Getting Facials

By DILEMMA EMMA

December 9, 2011

Dear Dilemma Emma,

I like porn as much as the next girl and I’ve always been kind of curious about facials [editor’s note: a facial is the act of ejaculating on someone’s face or having someone ejaculate …

Emma Dilemma: Friend or Foe?

By DILEMMA EMMA

December 2, 2011

Dear Dilemma Emma,

I have just gone through a very difficult 6 months with my girlfriend. We broke up three times, but every time we got back together I felt like we …

Dilemma Emma: Sex after Sexual Assault?

By DILEMMA EMMA

November 15, 2011

Dear Dilemma Emma,

I just started seeing someone I’m really interested in. However, this is my first foray into dating since being sexually assaulted. I haven’t told him about the assault, because we’re still in the …

Dilemma Emma: Ink Stinks

By DILEMMA EMMA

November 8, 2011

Dear Emma,

I have a horrible tattoo.  It’s a purple Dave Matthews Band symbol on my lower back, just left of tramp stamp territory.  I got it when I was 16, …

Dilemma Emma: Feminist Rape Fantasies?

By DILEMMA EMMA

October 26, 2011

Dear Emma,

I feel really gross about this, to the point where I haven’t told my closest friends.  But, I like to be held down during sex.  I know that …

Introducing New Column: Dilemma Emma!

By DILEMMA EMMA

October 16, 2011

Dear Dilemma,

I’ve been out as a lesbian for a long time. Let’s just say I came out before I got my first bra. I had some bad experiences with straight women objectifying me early on …

Dollar Dollar Bills for the Pill

By READ MY LIPS

March 20, 2011

Dear Read My Lips,

What’s the deal with paying for the pill?  My boyfriend and I have been talking about whether I should go on the pill, because he really hates condoms, and I want to know …